What a great forum this is!
What I do know is that if you sort your depression out, the other things will probably fall into place.
What I have learned about it over the years is that it is due to this chemical imbalance in your brain,
(which the Prozac attempts to address). The reason the imbalance occurs in the first place can be down to the
way you think about things, your outlook on life. So what/how you think has a physical effect on your body
- if you think this is odd, it shouldnt really be a surprise!
You definitely need counselling/CBT, private would be better as it can start quickly - you can get counselling
on the NHS, but the waiting time can be long. In the meantime, there is a website called "Moodgym" which is
useful and free.
Also I know there is a great website called "Youngminds" - not sure if there is something similar for the more
mature chap, but they may be able to point you in the right direction.
You will get though it.