i envolved my wife we went looking at a load of cars, i was originally set on an elise, but she said it wasn't a proper car as it didn't have carpet.
looked at the rx8 but neither of us liked that. both liked the bmw z4m coupe but it was out of my price range at the time.
both liked the zed, and it made financial sense. was organising it the week we got married, confirmed it on the honeymoon and had it delivered the day we got back
she got a posh wedding, i got my car
she even likes the majority of the mods ive put on, the only one she hasn't made her mind up on is my spoiler.
when it comes to modding i use the divide by 3 rule and minus £60, so the majority of mods usually cost about £30 but most of the time she doesn't question it.