Not meaning to sound rude, but if you are not a photographer, are you actually interested in getting into the technical aspect at all? The reason I ask is that an SLR in a non-technical minded persons hands, on auto mode, will infact likely give you worse results than a point and shoot camera. SLRs are designed to be set up and used properly, they dont focus on making auto mode particularly good. Also on the SLR front, you will need to be dedicated to buying better lenses if you want really good results, the kit lenses arent the best usually.
You might be better off with a hybrid or normal point and shoot. My Canon G11 is a good as my SLR in quite a lot of circumsances and handles most stuff in full auto just fine. Sure my SLR gets better pics when I set it up, but both on full auto, its hard to tell, with one being worth 2x as the other