I have a spying device for my cat but that's as far as I would go, we live 50 miles apart but have no trust issues at all, I divorce people for a living and all the messing around just seems like too much hard work (not that I would anyway lol).
I'm a bit obsessive about bank accounts need to know what I have re bills coming out etc, so I have a bills account, an account set aside with money for the car for tax, MOT, servicing or any repairs, a savings, an ISA and my everyday account which is my money to live on after all the above have been credited, that way everything is paid for and I get what's left over, which isn't much lol