Totally understandable and acceptable, see my sig
To clarify Mark's comment, the DE kit will be over 9k if you need the above.
The HR kit is more like 11k without any of the above, oil cooler or larger sump which Mark recommends - so probably more like 13-14k if you need the above and include the recommendations. Please correct me if that's not what you meant Mark.
I'm still probably going to be doing it on my HR, although spending about the value of the car on mods is a little to most people.