Fixed this for you Neilp
You need to take the car out for a drive, not to anywhere, for no reason other than driving as late as possible. Find some twisties. Find somewhere new, somewhere fun and just drive. Pick out a point on the map and go there.
When I was at college a friend of mine used to drive for 30 miles to anywhere she liked. We'd then switch over and I had to get back to our starting point in less than 30 miles without satnav, map etc. We were just driving down country roads and having a laugh. If I managed less than 30 miles I won, if I didn't, she did.
We also used to play the "left, right game" first road on the left, next on the right etc until we were lost beyond all recognition, just being in a car and driving for the fun of it. Do that and you'll remember why you love the car, if you don't then it's time to sell...