mouthwash Posted August 7, 2014 Posted August 7, 2014 If you want to get away from it all for a while I know a guy who knows a guy who knows someone who might know someone else that can fake your death. Or was I just watching Eraser..? 1 Quote
nowhereboy Posted August 7, 2014 Posted August 7, 2014 Personally I'd just get my own place and let her get on with it. Infact thats exactly what I did in a similar situation with my dad, either way I hope everything sorts itself out for you fella. Quote
Flex Posted August 7, 2014 Posted August 7, 2014 Mate, why dont you just rent a room somewhere, loads of people let their spare room out. You never know you might get a super fit landlady. 1 Quote
Grundy Posted August 7, 2014 Author Posted August 7, 2014 Mate, why dont you just rent a room somewhere, loads of people let their spare room out. You never know you might get a super fit landlady. That's the plan, well, looking into Part Rent Part Buy at the moment. 2 Quote
Flex Posted August 7, 2014 Posted August 7, 2014 Mate, why dont you just rent a room somewhere, loads of people let their spare room out. You never know you might get a super fit landlady. That's the plan, well, looking into Part Rent Part Buy at the moment. Winning. Quote
StevoD Posted August 7, 2014 Posted August 7, 2014 Mate, why dont you just rent a room somewhere, loads of people let their spare room out. You never know you might get a super fit landlady. That's the plan, well, looking into Part Rent Part Buy at the moment. Be careful with them I looked into a lot of people been caught out with things you can't do with them as technically It's never your house, untill you paid 100% of it and if you pay 50% of 100k then years later want to buy the rest you buy the rest at market value so you could be paying 50% of 250k for an example Quote
The Bounty Bar Kid Posted August 7, 2014 Posted August 7, 2014 Hope you sort it all out dude! Some great advice above that I couldn't improve upon. Quote
Steel Lynx Posted August 8, 2014 Posted August 8, 2014 This isn't a quick fix but has your mum or maybe you thought of looking for a zero % interest credit card (for her)? It might be worth transferring the balance of her maxed out cards to one of these. It might ease things a little. Credit cards are crippling at the best of times but there's lots of places that will offer zero % interest if you transfer. You obviously still have to pay back a monthly fee but it can make things much easier. And when the offer duration ends you switch to another (all card companies prey on people that can't be bothered to deal with changing every few months, Which is most people to be fair) Just thought I would offer that up as it's helped out a couple of my friends in the past. 1 Quote
SJ350z Posted August 10, 2014 Posted August 10, 2014 You sound like twice the Son I am to be honest. She doesn't mean it when she calls you selfish mate trust me. Me and my mum have called each other terrible things but we are still friends. Things will get better she is just under a lot of stress and pressure by the sounds of things. Plenty of people on here that will support you mate 1 Quote
Grundy Posted August 10, 2014 Author Posted August 10, 2014 Well I'm still in the same house I was last week ...She's not said what's going on. But I think she's looking for a Lodger to live with us. 1 Quote
SJ350z Posted August 10, 2014 Posted August 10, 2014 Sounds like a very viable solution to be honest mate..you could atleast test it out Hope things don't get any worse mate and I cant express just how much Will is right when he says you both need each other ! Not easy raising a Kid in this day and age.. not that I would have a clue about it but I can only imagine. All the best mate #maxhomo #manyhugs #muchlove p.s did you call yourself after Soloman Grundy? Quote
Grundy Posted August 10, 2014 Author Posted August 10, 2014 Sounds like a very viable solution to be honest mate..you could atleast test it out Hope things don't get any worse mate and I cant express just how much Will is right when he says you both need each other ! Not easy raising a Kid in this day and age.. not that I would have a clue about it but I can only imagine. All the best mate #maxhomo #manyhugs #muchlove p.s did you call yourself after Soloman Grundy? Well my names Matt Grundy But Solomon works well too. 1 Quote
SJ350z Posted August 10, 2014 Posted August 10, 2014 Hahaha ! Thought your picture was from injustice Gods among us and you were called Grundy so Quote
andy james Posted August 10, 2014 Posted August 10, 2014 Hope things work out for you mate. Katrina thinks your lovely and would adopt you instantly! I on the other hand am more concerned that I only have room for one zed in my garage! Lol. Quote
Ekona Posted August 10, 2014 Posted August 10, 2014 If a lodger is a must, can I make a suggestion that you choose them? I don't think your Mum has a great track record in picking the right people to share her life with. At least get a veto. Quote
Flex Posted August 11, 2014 Posted August 11, 2014 If a lodger is a must, can I make a suggestion that you choose them? I don't think your Mum has a great track record in picking the right people to share her life with. At least get a veto. Merc? Quote
Grundy Posted August 11, 2014 Author Posted August 11, 2014 Is she like wills mum from inbetweeners ? Brilliant. Quote
mouthwash Posted August 11, 2014 Posted August 11, 2014 (edited) Is she like wills mum from inbetweeners ? Brilliant. Edited August 11, 2014 by mouthwash Quote
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