Guys, again, a really truely genuine thankyou's from the heart for all of your positive comments and ermmm suggestions.
I am welling up here....
Its amazing how this community has come together, and celebrated my success.
All I can say is this......
THANKYOU
I will answer all the questions in one post, or I could do them individually and get my post count up......
Seriously people, massive thankyou, I actually had a good night sleep last night, seem that huge burden has been lifted, and suddenly everything became clear......phew!