RIght prepare for a rant but is purely to stop this happening to you.
I sold an item on Ebay and a seller contacted me saying would I post to Italy (alarm bells should have been ringing more) even though I was nervous I said yeah ok if you win.
Anyway the seller seemed legit, send me emails from his hotmail address asking questions. So this guy won it and paid very quickly, I was still dubious so immediately with drew the amount from Paypal. After contact with the seller I waited till the amount was in my bank before sending the Item.
Went to send the Item and asked for 1st Class recorded post and was told by the woman that it was pointless as they could only track the item within the UK, outside of the UK it was taken on by a different postage system, so i duely sent my item collecting my proof of postage.
Fast fwd 3 weeks I had the buying saying he had not received the Item and he was opening a dispute with Paypal, immediately on opening this dispute the amount was deducted from my paypal account sending me into debt. On seeing this I rang Paypal, - they refuse to accept that a receipt from the post office that says, this is your proof of posting is actually proof of posting. I explained the issues with being unable to track to which i pretty much got the answer 'not my problem'! So currently I have no Item and no money! They say it is me to ensure the Item is delivered!!!! (What more could I have done by take it myself!) now because I stayed in contact with the Buyer, sent him all the info, acted completely by the book i am getting screwed over.
I am really (censored) ed off!
So expensive lesson learnt by me, and heads up for you all..... avoid paypal if at all possible and if you do send anything and i mean anything make sure it is recorded 1 class wax stampped trackered and what other proof you can have on the damn parcel.
Paypal have washed their hands of it and even charged to take the money out my account again!!!!
Sorry for moan but it is a lesson for you all!