^^^ I am afraid thats just the way the law works mate, i have know many a guy who has to pay a very very healthy divorce settlement (6 figure sums) even though it the wives who cheated and filed for the divorce, as biased as we may be on here, any guys been paid out, i doubt it
I know a fella recently, his wife got busted having an affair, they agreed to split house etc right down the middle and a whole host of other stuff that saw her very comfortable, she then decides a few weeks later that isnt enough and wants to go after half his pension fund (industrial units and savings)