Sorry to hear that Kta about your dad , I replied to your Pm before I just read this thread. Don't worry about sorting anything out until your ready to, theres really no rush at all. cheers Chris.
I hit a muntjac deer once at about 50 mph on a dual carriageway , it destroyed the Honda civic I was driving and ended up in the back of the engine bay.Luckily it was my girlfriends car ! We split up not long after