Its called a PM
yea but then other potential buyers remain unaware as in the case of unabashed
First to PM gets the item IMO. This dibs business is crap, send the pm saying you want it & pay for it simples
but if the buyer doesn't PM everyone ..... that's 1st 2nd 3rd 4th etc. ........ back then you're don't know if you 1st or 2nd or etc.and you therefore don't know if you've bought the item (as in the case of UNABASHED above)