Thanks for all the support guys (n gals)! 
  
Im starting to think it may NOT be a right off.. will find out tonight anyway! 
  
I had a brilliant idea this morning.. not sure it'll work but it's an idea! OK.. so if rays are like £1,000 per alloy from nissan then i would be a lot better off getting some LMGT4s @ 1,400ish for 4. Also a nismo bodykit replica is a lot cheaper than a stock bumper and skirts from nissan! SO.. if the insurance company let me I will get the car fixed but with cheaper than stock parts! 
  
Or maybe its just really wishful thinking!