Haha would love to mate, but been going back forth on these two options every single day! Will be good to hear peoples opinions on what looks best and any advice on both options.
You've basically said in your OP, "I really, really, really want a Chargespeed rear bumper. Something else is cheaper, but I really want that rear bumper."
There's absolutely no back and forth in your OP, it's just a plea for someone (anyone) to justify your desire to spend more on a bumper than you want over a diffuser that's just cheaper.
Now this may sound harsh but; just STFU and buy the sodding bumper already!
Haha not sure if thats what I was waiting to hear. Its something my mate would say to me to put me on the right track! Think ive been waiting for someone to say dont get the bumper because its rubbish but I know its not going to happen! lol ah.. Slowly moving the bumper to checkout! haha thanks for the help bud