I know what you're saying dude and you have some very valid points. I agree that the celeb world is rife with drugs and no celeb that takes drugs should be treated as a role model!
The difference between Winehouse and other drug taking celebs is that she has repeatedly taken them until they killed her. She wasn't shy about it either, it's been in the news constantly for years and now that she has died, people are shocked and mournful. Would there be the same reaction if Pete Doherty killed himself or would people just say "well he had it coming"?
Ultimately, my biggest problem with this is what she has done to her family. I think it's incredibly selfish and I genuinely feel for her family. As Ive said, no parent should have to bury their child and to bury her under these circumstances is shocking!
She was supposed to be a role model and as it is almost always the case, she got in with the wrong people and it killed her.