It’s a bit like cars. No matter how much you like the way a car looks, when the new model comes out the older model looks dated after you see a few on the road, even if the old one looks better
As Dan said go with what makes you feel good, and also what suits you
I used to hate some trends including my current hairdo, but they grow in after a while. I’m always late to the party lol
Edit- I always wonder who decides what trends look good and become the norm?