independence?? responsibility?? etc etc??
im not saying its a fail but its just downright lazy if you have the cash.
unless you cook your own meals, do all your own washing, cleaning, pay some of the bills in your name, etc. in that case its definately not a fail. there are cases of course i wouldnt have a go, looking after ill parents, just about to buy a house.
its nothing to do with how others perceive you tbh. but personally at the age of 23 i couldnt live with myself bringing a girl abck to my mum and dads house after a date but hey, each to their own