You're right, I'm knackered, it's all that ironing, cooking, cleaning, shopping, full time job and being an all round domestic goddess that does it!
If you want some serious advice, learn to iron if you can't already, be good around the house without having to be forced and try to manage a bunch of flowers once every couple of weeks. Most of us don't want much (once we've got a Z), it's the little things that count but unfortunately some guys find even that too much like hard work!