I'm not keen on the bonnet or front lip either. The only two front lips I like are the veilside v1 (or vs style), and the varis. And I prefer the N1 spoiler to the N2, although I would prefer to have neither on a coupe, especially without a kit.
I would advise to go for a stock car and modify to your requirements, the pop charger isn't very expensive although is just for sound. You may end up finding a bargain with used wheels/exhaust in the for sale section if the chance presents itself.