ian.lewkowicz  I pretty sure everything is all wired correctly as I am getting power and sound.  just not loud. i think i have read on some other thread that people experience this with bose systems and need to use pac roem, something or other. 
  
BulletMagnet Problem is I ordered my steering wheel control from ebay and i'm in Australia and it's a hassle to go through ebay for refund, resend etc...  Have contacted ICT directly and they did advise me a 29-020 will work, but in the meantime before ordering it, they advised re-connect a black cable which was instructed to be 'cut' for pioneer headunits.  So going to give that a try. 
  
Thanks all for your input